Who gets me there?

How do we end up where we are?  Some will believe that it is forces,

people and circumstances around them that get them to where they are be it good bad or indifferent.  Or are we are where we are at because of many decisions make each and everyday.  I think the latter.

Every time we make a decision or don't make a decision we are going in a direction that only one person has control over and that is me.  If I want to be somewhere that I am not either emotionally, personally, financially, ethically or any where else;  it is only my decisions that can get me there.  There is no one else that I burden with where or how things are for me. Me and only me is the creator of where I am.  If I am not where I want to be; me and only me can get me there